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The attention-seekers

-Abbhirami

We tend to call many as posers. They are the ones who always try to get over the entire place just showing off or blowing off their own trumpets. They are sometimes a problem and others tend to get easily irritated by the acts they do. Some hyper actives are at times misjudged as a poser.

Imagine a character in your life that you have come across who does something or the other to seek attention. Not just they seek they crave for it. Just analyze the character, by looking at the things they do. You can find that they don’t really do this to irritate people. It is because they feel unnoticed in the crowd that makes them feel embarrassed. They do things just to avoid such situations on their own. They try to get involved into things and situations to try to make them feel okay.

A known example that I can provide you with is a kid. Just imagine you are playing with kid. After a while just leave her or him alone. To get back your attention he does all things. He cries, he throws things at you, he comes near you and looks at your face with such a look that your heart melts and you do things that he wants to get done.
Just let them be what they are. And enjoy looking at them.